THE PARENTING IQ PODCAST
Understand your child & parent with confidence
Parenting advice is everywhere. Knowing what fits your child and your family can feel really hard.
The Parenting IQ Podcast helps you make everyday parenting decisions with greater understanding and confidence. Join Dr. Kelly Cagle and her guests for practical conversations that connect research with real family life so you can understand your child, weigh your options, and confidently choose your next step.
Hosted by Dr. Kelly Cagle, a PhD in K-16 education, ADHD researcher, and homeschooling mom of three boys, each episode helps you better understand your child’s needs, so you feel confident teaching life skills, character, and emotional intelligence that go far beyond the textbook and last a lifetime.
Some of the topics we cover include:
ADHD-friendly parenting strategies
How to motivate your kids without nagging
Building confident, connected families
Teaching life skills that stick
Rethinking academics for real-world success
Managing sibling dynamics and home rhythms
Biblical wisdom + brain science and so much more
The show is proudly part of The Christian Parenting Podcast Network.
Our mission is to help you understand your child so you can parent with confidence.
How Words, Grace, and Repair Transform our Homes w/ Amy Hughes
What if your words could shift the entire atmosphere of your home? In this heartfelt episode, Amy Hughes—mom of nine and author of Words Like Honey—joins Dr. Kelly Cagle to share how grace, emotional connection, and the power of repair create a safe, spirit-led home. From navigating meltdowns to modeling godly speech, this conversation will challenge and refresh every parent.
How to Host Without the Pressure w/ Abby Kuykendall
What if hospitality didn’t require a clean house or a flawless meal? Author and home host Abby Kuykendall joins Dr. Kelly Cagle to redefine what it means to invite people in. In this grace-filled conversation, you’ll learn how to release the pressure of perfection, embrace messy community, and model biblical hospitality for your kids. A must-listen for anyone who’s hesitated to open their front door.
Healing Through Community w/ Toni Collier
What if healing wasn’t something you were meant to do alone? In this powerful conversation, Toni Collier joins Dr. Kelly Cagle to share how safe relationships, confessional community, and honest boundaries help us heal from life’s deepest wounds. From parenting after pain to rebuilding trust, this episode is a must-listen for anyone craving real connection and lasting healing.
Raising Compassionate Kids in a Diverse World w/ Rachel Van Kluyve
How do you raise children to be empathetic, imaginative, and inclusive? In this inspiring episode, Rachel Van Kluyve—homeschooling mom, adoptive parent, and author—joins Dr. Kelly Cagle to explore the power of representation, the beauty of adoption, and how modeling compassion can shape our kids’ worldview. You’ll walk away with heartfelt stories and practical encouragement to raise kids who love well in a diverse world.
When You Are Tired of Doing It All w/ Tara Sun
Feeling overwhelmed by the pressure to do it all? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle and Tara Sun talk about trading hustle for holy rest. Tara shares her journey through chronic illness and burnout, offering biblical encouragement for moms who are ready to lay down perfection and walk in God’s pace. You don’t have to prove your worth—your purpose is found in faithfulness.
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Speaking Topics
ADHD Conversations:
Parenting Beyond the ADHD Label— Understanding a child’s strengths, challenges, and needs without letting a diagnosis “define” them.
Why Won’t You Just Do It?— Exploring why getting started, following directions, and finishing tasks can be difficult, and how parents can help through systems, not more nagging and yelling.
Homework, ADHD, and the Parent-Child Relationship— Creating a more supportive homework experience through realistic expectations and school partnerships.
ADHD and Big Feelings— Navigating frustration and emotional overwhelm with compassion, clear boundaries, and opportunities to reconnect.
Building Independence When Your Child Has ADHD— Helping children practice responsibility with support that grows and changes alongside them.
Home Rhythms Conversations:
Creating a Home That Works for Your Family— Establishing predictable patterns that bring structure while making room for joy, hiccups, and real life.
Less Rushing, More Connection— Using simple moments as anchors, making busy life feel more manageable and less chaotic.
The After-School Reset— Creating space for kids’ needs while juggling homework, activities, and family time.
Running a Home Like a Business— Using systems to create a healthier flow, accomplish more, bring clarity and unity, and build skills
When the World Becomes Your School— Recognizing there are many lessons no school will teach and how we can weave them into our day-to-day.
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