Fighting Fair: Turning Conflict into Connection in Marriage

In marriages touched by ADHD, conflict can feel louder, faster, and more frequent—but it doesn't have to pull you apart. This workshop offers a fresh perspective on how to navigate the emotional intensity and communication gaps that often come with ADHD. Dr. Kelly Cagle helps couples reframe conflict as an opportunity to grow closer, not drift further.

3 Key Takeaways:

  1. Learn to choose your battles (especially in the heat of impulsivity). Not every irritation deserves an argument—discover how to press pause and respond with intention.

  2. Understand your “fighter type”—and your partner’s. Whether you shut down, lash out, or talk in circles, knowing your patterns is the first step to changing them.

  3. Honor your neurodiverse differences. Learn practical ways to communicate and reconnect, even when ADHD traits—like distractibility, emotional reactivity, or forgetfulness—try to get in the way.

You’re two very different people with beautifully different brains—but you’re on the same team. This workshop equips you to fight with each other, not against each other, and to build a marriage where both of you feel heard, respected, and secure.