THE PARENTING IQ PODCAST
Understand your child & parent with confidence
Parenting advice is everywhere. Knowing what fits your child and your family can feel really hard.
The Parenting IQ Podcast helps you make everyday parenting decisions with greater understanding and confidence. Join Dr. Kelly Cagle and her guests for practical conversations that connect research with real family life so you can understand your child, weigh your options, and confidently choose your next step.
Hosted by Dr. Kelly Cagle, a PhD in K-16 education, ADHD researcher, and homeschooling mom of three boys, each episode helps you better understand your child’s needs, so you feel confident teaching life skills, character, and emotional intelligence that go far beyond the textbook and last a lifetime.
Some of the topics we cover include:
ADHD-friendly parenting strategies
How to motivate your kids without nagging
Building confident, connected families
Teaching life skills that stick
Rethinking academics for real-world success
Managing sibling dynamics and home rhythms
Biblical wisdom + brain science and so much more
The show is proudly part of The Christian Parenting Podcast Network.
Our mission is to help you understand your child so you can parent with confidence.
How to Stop Getting Triggered in Your Marriage w/ Dr. Kelly Flanagan
Why do small disagreements in marriage sometimes turn into big arguments? In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with psychologist and author Dr. Kelly Flanagan to explore what really happens when we get triggered. Together, they discuss the hidden needs beneath conflict, why couples react so differently, and practical ways to stay connected instead of becoming defensive. If you want healthier communication and a stronger marriage, this conversation will give you simple, actionable tools you can start using today.
Our Top 20 Lessons After 20 Years of Marriage w/ Joshua Cagle
Marriage isn't built in a day, it's built one intentional choice at a time. In this special anniversary episode, Dr. Kelly and Joshua Cagle celebrate 20 years of marriage by sharing the biggest lessons they've learned about communication, conflict, parenting, faith, finances, fun, and keeping God at the center. Whether you're newly married or decades into your journey, this honest conversation will encourage you with practical wisdom to help your marriage grow stronger through every season.
How to Love Your Spouse So They Really Feel It w/ Dr. Gary Chapman
What if your spouse is trying to love you but you simply aren't feeling it? In this powerful conversation, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with bestselling author Dr. Gary Chapman to unpack why even the strongest marriages can experience emotional disconnect. Together, they explore the five love languages, the surprising role of personality and "love language dialects," and how intentional choices can help you better understand your spouse, strengthen your connection, and build a marriage where both of you truly feel seen, valued, and deeply loved.
What Michael Jr. Says Every Dad Needs to Hear Right Now
What does it really mean to be a great dad? In this powerful and hilarious conversation, Michael Jr. shares hard-earned wisdom on fatherhood, faith, marriage, and personal growth. From learning to trust God over hustle culture to viewing conflict as an opportunity for transformation, Michael challenges parents to lead from a place of curiosity, grace, and purpose. You'll laugh, reflect, and walk away encouraged by his reminder that God isn't asking parents to be perfect—He's asking them to stay connected to the perfect Father.
Why Some Men Win at Work and Lose at Home w/ Joshua Cagle
Why do so many men succeed at work yet struggle to stay connected at home? In this Father's Day episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle and her husband, Joshua Cagle, discuss identity, leadership, and legacy, sharing practical wisdom on balancing career, family, and faith. Learn how to lead with intentionality, stay grounded in your God-given identity, and build a legacy that lasts far beyond your accomplishments.
How Smart Parents Teach Kids About Money w/ Dr. Stephen Day
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Dr. Stephen Day to discuss how parents can teach kids about money through everyday experiences, not just financial lessons. They explore practical ways to help children develop healthy habits around earning, saving, spending, and giving while building responsibility and confidence along the way. Dr. Day shares why elementary-age years are critical for shaping money values and offers simple strategies parents can implement at home. This conversation will encourage moms and dads to turn ordinary family moments into powerful lessons that prepare kids for a lifetime of financial wisdom.
Why Dads Feel So Overwhelmed and the Surprising Solution w/ Joshua Becker
In this episode, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with bestselling author Joshua Becker to discuss why so many dads feel overwhelmed and how simplifying life can create more space for faith, family, and purpose. Joshua shares how consumerism, clutter, and the pursuit of "more" often distract us from what matters most. Together, they explore practical ways to reduce overwhelm, become more present with your family, and prioritize spiritual growth. This conversation will encourage parents to live with greater intention and focus on building a lasting legacy.
Stop the Power Struggles: Parenting a Strong-Willed Child w/ Mary Van Geffen
In this episode of the Parenting IQ Podcast, Dr. Kelly Cagle sits down with Mary Van Geffen to unpack why strong-willed “spicy” kids push every button and how parents can stop the exhausting power struggles without punishment, shame, or constant yelling. If you’ve ever wondered, “Why is everything such a battle with this child?” this conversation will give you practical tools, fresh perspective, and hope for creating more connection and peace at home.
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A mind shift between student & learner
What every American home desperately needs: Less chaos, more connection
Being a healthy mom in an overstimulating world
When the world is your school: Learning that happens at home
Three character traits every child needs: Competence, creativity, and curiosity
Avoiding parental burnout
How to fight the current mental health crisis
Eight ways people are wired as learners through the 8 Multiple Intelligences theoretical lens
Improving home life with an ADHD child: Simple habits that make a big difference
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